Home & Country Newsletters (Stoney Creek, ON), Winter 1986, p. 3

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follow your pro- 7 "It will": yetmv ' In ofthe‘ many changes that were recommended by the Committee on Women's Institute: of the Future. it might. he ' te to pause and reflect upon the positive side or life uhengeguin general. mmrltoolt a course at the University of Guelph entitled “Forks In The Road: Life Transitions and Choline.” The mm: was led by Dr.StIm Luker, a fernin life and adult education medalist. and i will remain forever grateful to him for helping me understand the process of change â€" and why endings and a period at maiden are necessary before we can get on with our new beginnings. Being e journalist. I naturally made extensive notes during Pro- fessor Luker’e lectures. A classmate (Holly Anthem of Puslinch) and l intention]!th our notes into manu- script form. The following are ex- cenpu-fmm that mantucfipt. which lhopeyouwilllindhelpfulasther “tenths-period of transition that is 30an between endings and new +++ ‘Wtim are those key mo- menle‘alhenweee‘emtobeon the of something new in our point in our timiflu‘wehttvesuch dif- Editorlll Ann Hlnpl'lch know that change is inevtlahlu'.’ Why do we flounder and l umblc so much'! Mull there be so much struggle and pain? Alterall. the only conatant Ichange. In Chinese. the tdcographs for (huge! and opportunity arc Combined to form the symbol for (TH/S. Alma»! always in a tramition w in any major life change â€" the two components of danger and opportunity are present We must be sure to look at both sides. . . Too often we try to rush headlong through a transition (often doing unhealthy things) or wt: try to hark back to “the good old days." We simply do not allow the process of transition to occur. What is the process of transition? One of the reasons we are so puz- zled by transitions is that each one starts with an ending. Remember: no cannot have new blosmms in the spring without the fall and winter. Each transition begins with the death of an old way of life. We hme so much trouble because we don't lull} accept that the process begins with an ending and we cling fiercely to old habits. You cannot. however, hang onto the old and grasp the new at the same time! Professor Luker calls the next part of the change process “the neurra/ zone. " This. he says, is a period of confusion. anxiety. doubts and stress. We are in transition! There is more 77H! seems la be a In! of wort/mum ubum (h and differ-ems Ihtlt am? hi» I»!!! the JWIO and {he “'70 In an ur- Ientpl to beta nufns truer undmmnd the M W, emuu. Mme d rumm‘ Inle’r. Wlw‘lOpren'dem Manon Ample and FIWO prank!" Gloria":- Johmn. The M W in dialogurjbrmar an ME I: ad I). Iliatt lhr lll'fgrlll 1- ..tlr H l anuvly. Ihmlyl. lii- :- um]; [Iljllllll r-l gin ‘ " Wt'Lbrln'l' malt: A In ,il‘l lv .- titng lramtli-iri ml: mt. lterlL‘li 4 Int ml ll rm ' -: tUHIIJHIIg no» u! lrtv: pm v xtliun Mr»: tit-ml Mil ‘-HlTlr:l!‘Ill'Ig.1ltl.!w m t 4. 41H Una: w: gm ll: [li" rm: a are ifU/Clt in union m. U bail- “hurt: .w: ‘AC “hit 1hr: danger tel utmm .l’l; lie and uimrnlclr: rm: «7w r, ’ UliJN‘Allldafi-befw wry, A ‘ lath-J “an ‘ ‘1‘ mUFL' LaurlnIJ'.l., Eur A: 'll! .' cycnluall} \Ac 1:1“ '4» ; talc stint its me wt mus! go on ll;- llfll r‘l‘_‘f1l' ‘ realm: :shat': gum; ml. i2"; ' optimism. and lcarn In ' In a more poullllr: way Only after we hat the ending: and SU‘.‘.C:“UH_. ; the neutral IIDHF.‘ Lari w,- h at health} ma) “htl: w: or: -: , around In "the neutral yr»: ~; :3 actually clcanng [his '\‘-dj- and l-J‘ ', the foundatth to: Our mw ' ' ninn. This l5 a more l'afiqU“ “here no mote from a rurqu on into some smooth willing twr'ic-J t + - * [am confident :mo-nth ; ahead lor the \MJmen‘~ lnxl parting with for )Ou in 'n from the Old “3} to (h: l'lv:-\ ~ 'l’.:‘ the passage in between he a I experience ler uhtcn all and benefit, Ann Hauprich is Acting Lditur ut Home & Country Resoluttonx L'“ [l Ream Future [SMIL‘ “I in the new PEI cumurtncz‘ Rufln‘cttom !rom Rt,“ \larton kL‘JT‘LL' J‘Ml“ I0 Duluguc Annual rm‘m “Is on the w Network Into Ruaden’htr who

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